| CHAOS Agreement | What It Means |
| Confidentiality | What someone shares in the circle stays in the circle. Do not repeat another person’s personal story outside this space. This helps build trust. |
| Honesty | Tell the truth about your own experience. You do not have to share everything, but when you do speak, practice being real. |
| Accountability | Own your words, your actions, and your impact. If you mess up, you can listen, take responsibility, and repair. |
| Ownership | Speak from your own life instead of blaming everyone else. Use “I” statements and notice what part is yours to work with. |
| Sacred | Treat this space, yourself, and the people in the circle with respect. This work matters, so bring your attention and presence to it. |
These agreements do not mean you have to be perfect. You may make mistakes. The practice is to notice, own it, repair, and come back to respect.